Seeking external motivation: the power of a job application
April 21, 2011 § 11 Comments
I stare at the Word document. It stares right on back. Jeering. Judging. Judging? Definitely judging. Why don’t you just go ahead and write something then? It taunts me. I sigh and fight the urge to open WordPress.com to begin another hour-long marathon of blog-reading. Do it. The document seems to say. You can’t write today anyway. You’re too tired. You’re too bored. You’re too lame. You’re too incapable.
Instead of succumbing to the document’s powerful fighting words, I open a new window in Safari. But not to visit WordPress.com. Instead, I visit my university employment site. I log in. And I see something beautiful. Under the words “Application Status” are the glorious and truly validating words “Forwarded to hiring department.”
This is not the first time I’ve read this memo. I must have logged in to this system at least five times since yesterday. Seven times since Tuesday night when I came home in tears over blog grades. Were they happy tears? I think so. And angry tears. Tears that indicated the vindication I so desperately sought from a department that won’t offer it. Come on, I told myself. Seriously. What English department actually vindicates its graduate students? I thought of my undergraduate English department. Yeah, I corrected myself. You weren’t a graduate student then. I wanted to buck-up or maybe I wanted to continue ripping apart my self-esteem. I logged onto the employment site for the first time since submitting my application and saw the status was, gloriously, updated as though to say, “Amanda, we think you’re all right!” I fought back more tears. I was too tired to deal with this, but I went to bed happy. I made it through one more hoop.
Since Tuesday, I have logged onto that site in the moments when self-doubt and -deprecation threaten to creep back in. I want nothing more than to silence that voice that has seemed to locate a megaphone in my mind and that hourly shouts at me, “You are such a fucking loser!”
Knowing my application has been approved by someone with the expertise to approve such things offers that megaphone-voice the equivalent of a mental raspberry. Pbbt! I imagine spitting at the negativity. Gosh darn it someone likes me! I giggle at my own reference to early Franken.
Somehow this job application, this whimsical hope, this dream, this fantasy has been enough to spur me onward. I have been productive–if not every moment on my dissertation, then I have been a more productive teacher in these past few days. I have graded more, lesson-planned better, conducted more analytical and interesting class discussions. I have written over twelve pages all told. I have compiled disparate secondary sources and identified the ways in which I will use each one. I am ready to move forward and finish.
This job, this fantasy has offered me a concrete finish line.
“It will be extremely difficult for someone to do this job well while also finishing a dissertation,” she told me confidentially. I smiled and assured her I’d be finished by the beginning of August.
And I will be.
I will be because this job is important. And I want this job. This specific job. This isn’t just any job in the wide world. This is a great job. An interesting job. A job I know I would do well. It shouldn’t even have been available this year, but thank goodness that it is.
Even though the promise of the job is as solid as gossamer, belief in it fortifies the fantasy until it can withstand the weight of my dissertation, of my motivation.
Congratulations, Amanda–another step forward! Good for you, my friend!
Thanks, Kathy! It’s a minor step, but it’s a step, right? 🙂
Congrats! I’m sure that this is just the beginning for you and I’m so glad that this job opportunity is helping you motivate yourself so much more. I will continue to hope that it works out!
Thanks Tawnysha! It’s really incredible where one can find motivation, isn’t it? Haha.
Congrats! I’m so glad you have found a lifeline to motivation. I am also jealous as I struggle to find the perfect words to convince someone that I am the perfect person for a job that I am again simultaneously over and under-qualified for. Sigh.
Thanks Lisa! Really, at this point, I’m just grasping at whatever will work for me to stay motivated. I loved your recent post about finding joy in your daughter. That’s a great lifeline! 🙂 I also understand that horrible feeling of being both under- and over-qualified for a job. I hope you’ll be able to find those perfect words to prove them that you’d be awesome for the job! 🙂 Good luck!
SO MUCH WIN! We think you’re all right, too 🙂
Aw, thanks Tori! You like me! You really like me! 😀
Woo- I can take a breath! Fingers crossed…
Haha, don’t hold your breath too long–this process might take another couple of weeks, lol. Thanks for the crossed fingers, though! 😉
[…] But, although I was encouraged by my dissertation writer to apply for this job, her encouragement stops there–she has no say in whether or not I get the job I so badly want. I have taken the steps: I met the director ahead of time, and I submitted my application almost a month ago. […]